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When was the last time you fell in love? What’s the difference between a crush and falling in love? Is there really a such thing as love at the first sight? Or is it just lust?
These questions were keeping me hornily confused since I’ve met him a week ago during a lunch break. He was introduced to me by Ms. W, an accountant at my workplace. His name was Mr. B. When I first getting into the backseat of his car, I couldn’t take my eyes off his back. I even forgot to put on my seat belt.
Ms. W :
Oh, it seems that I have to introduce you guys first. This is Mr. B and this is Emily.
Mr. B :
Hi, there. (quickly turned his head towards me, nodded and turned back)
Me :
Oh, hi. I am Emily. I supposed that you are Ms. W’s boyfriend.
Ms. W :
Oh, no! He’s not. He’s just a friend.
Mr. B smiled.
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Nice arms! I thought to myself and there were some naughty thoughts started flooding my brain. I wonder how good it feels to hug those arms. I started to daydream.
While my mind was wandering around those inappropriate thoughts, I quickly caught up with the conversation between Ms. W and Mr. B. It seemed that Ms. W was pushing him to call up a girl who he was interested in for a date that night.
I felt a little disappointment but I was glad that I get to know that information right before I found myself naked in bed with him in my previous wild daydreaming.
We hadn't talked much during the meal but I did made some friendly responses during the conversation to make it less awkward. He made the call and I wished him good luck before getting off his car in front of my office. Deep inside my heart, I hope that he changed the plan and go after me instead.
Of course, I kept thinking about him for the rest of the day and the rest of the week. What did I just do to my heart? How could I kept thinking about a guy who is obviously liking someone else.
I saw Ms. W again today. I only get to see her weekly since she just works part time for our office. I was excited to see her. She told me that Mr. B failed to get the girl and that it’s over between them. The girl has already found someone else. It was a great news to me!
Ms. W tried to ask if I am interested to go out with Mr. B. I avoided to answer. I am interested, of course! I was thinking about kissing him for the last whole week. Two reasons why I did not answer Ms. W.
1. He just got dumped. If he is asking me out just to make someone else got jealous or just to make him to forget the girl, it wouldn’t be fair to me.
2. An old rule, if he’s into me. He’ll get to me. Personally. If he’s not, maybe he’s just not into me.
Although I did told everyone that I want to find a boyfriend with lots of money and a boyfriend who is great in bed, I guess to find someone who is into me is still my ultimate rule. Whether it is love at the first sight or just lust, whether it is love or just a crush, he has to be into me.
25 comments:
Love is something a very awesome feelings,we never know how,when and where we might fall in love with someone truly,but on the other hand we may find that it is just an infatuation which is deriving us towards that persons,and after few days we may forget but love is different thing....
Love is really grace to everyone. There is always positive and negative part of it. Well, anyone has the freedom to feel in love. When your in it, you just feel that you and your love one are the only people on earth. Love is the most desirable thing that we dreamed of. Whenever this happened, bad or good it will always remain in our heart. If I will fall in love again,I will embrace it and be happy to express it with my special someone. I just love talking about love. God is the creator of love and he will always be our first love.
really an eye opener..!!
true love is what we call this..!!
amazing script..keep writing buddy..!! :)
Love is really a great bond between two hearts. Love at first sight is possible in rare cases, but mostly this kind of love at first sight is merely infatuation or lust
Love is a gift from God. God is love. He created humans with a sense to love and to be loved. We don't have to be rushed in falling in love let love seek and find you. I believe that God has a special man for you all you have to do is just wait and pray for the right time.
I still tend to think that love at first sight. Love is something romance and beautiful. Yes, it is important that he has to be into me.
It is really tough to say that is it love or just a crush. Because crush and love are both side of coin. Without crush you cannot love someone. But you want his as only bed partner, so this shows that you don't love him. You just want him at bed for sex.
Love at the first sight has a possibility but it often gets mixed with lust. Presently I am in a love affair but it is well considered and based on mutual needs.
Love is great. wwith the right method. confusing and like a game at times
Love is something special in ones life. Its also more than sex its being friends. We all need that special someone in our lifes. Its great to have a partner next to you in those good or bad time sin life.
HI friend love is really a wonderful feeling and it happens itself some time we fall in love in first sight but some time it takes time at present i am also searching for my love and hopes that it is very near to me because i really want to have feelings of love .
It is very difficult to say that is it love or just a crush. Because you are always thinking about being in bed with him. Not being with him as forever. So it may be a sexual crush for you.
No, I don’t believe you can just by passing by them or introducing yourselves to each other. However, I do believe that you can fall madly in love with someone by getting to know them and that the feelings you get from that can be so strong that you PERCEIVE love at first sight to be the only explanation.
If you don’t have a lot of experience dating, you’d immediately assume he/she is “the one” once you two clicked.
i don't believe in love at first sight. for me love is something that develops between two person. it is something that needs to be taking care of. just like cofee, it cools down when you did not pay attention.. and you don't wanted to cool down your love don't you?
I'm not a believer in love at first sight personally. I think it's necessary to really get to know someone before you can fall in love with them. It's entirely possible to become interested in someone at first sight though. It only takes a brief meeting to develop a crush. It takes time to fall in love though.
I have always felt that love at first sights are usually lust and there is no logic in them. This is because of the fact that love is the strongest bond on earth that cannot be made on first sight. It needs years of patience, love and affection help such a bond grow between two hearts.
I think love at first sight is just lust at first sight also. as the song goes love takes time it needs bonding, patience, care, affection and a whole lot more. without these factors love at first sight is nothing.
Awesome post and it is a great eye opener for all. I loved the way the post is written and i was getting goose bumps when i read through the article.
Love is the most special feeling in this world. Its pure, humble and caring. We all want true love and it makes our life peaceful.
I have to agree with you. He must be into you also. Love is a two way street, it has to be the two of you into each other or else it wouldn't be fair to either of you. I believe in love at first sight. Love has so many ways of revealing itself and the mere first sight is not an exception. There are so many successful relationships who claimed that they fell in love at first sight.
well, I hv to admin, it is a nice script, a vivid description .I think Love at the first sight does exist. It doesn't happen by chance . we may have though of a man or girl of our dream , as we think over it again and again for a certain period of time and gets more intensified, it comes in to existence. It is attracted in reality. (law of attraction) . keep writing , Emmy, cheers from Bali, the island of love,
First you have to get to know a person first before you decide if you're in love with them. What you're going through now is the "lust" stage. You've seen this attractive man and now you know he is available. You could tell your female friend you would like to talk to him or have her have him call you. Start out on a friendship level first.
This stage could be the best one during your relationship with him, be it just lust or true love. Cherish this moment.
True love is more than a feeling. It is a decision and commitment. You can like the look of someone when you first meet, be physically attracted, daydream about them; but if your first meeting turns out that way, it is a good indication of superficial lust. If you want something lasting, you need friendship before romantic attraction.
A perfect relationship may not be possible. But seeing your love as perfect as it is in this imperfect world can make your relationship last a long time.
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